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How We Change

March 29, 2025 Angela Jeffcott

Change is inevitable.

Nothing stays the same for long. Where I live, we are currently inching from winter to spring. Snow is on the mountains, trees are starting to bud out, the temperature climbs a little more each day.

I look at my kids and I see change. My teenager is suddenly looking me in the eye, excited to pass me up in height this year. My 11 year old is growing more confident, my first grader is trying to read more. Nothing can stop the change.

In life, we change; I look back at who I was 16 years ago when we moved to Utah and I’m thankful parts of me have changed. Motherhood, ministry, experiences, walking with friends through hard things. All that continues to work through me and I’m {prayerfully} being changed to be more like Christ.

But how do we look at things in our lives and know if a shift is necessary?

We are told many places in the New Testament that there is an “old man” and a “new man” for those who trust Christ. The old represents who we were in sin, living for ourselves. The new is who God has changed us to be and is currently sanctifying through the rest of our Christian walk.

We know we will change after salvation because our desires and habits are transformed. We are no longer given over to worldly things but our desire is to pursue Christ. We want what God wants, we mourn over things that grieve him, we view our lives as made for God’s glory.

However, this reality of being transformed has limits. Over the last several years, I’ve heard of Christians deconstructing their faith and many times, it leads to them completely abandoning their faith for secularism. We also have bitterness and anger changing people after a tragedy or unexpected situation. I would argue change is not always good or helpful.

So how can we know we’re changing in a good way?

First, we need to honestly ask if in our change we are moving away from God or closer to him. Questions aren’t bad but we need to be going to the correct place to find the answers.

Which leads to the second point. We need to stay in our Bibles. I’ve heard many deconstructionists say that in their attempt to get a fuller picture of the truth they turned to secular sources. This is not how we find out about God or truth. The world is at odds with its Creator. If we ask an atheist about God, we’re going to get a warped view of who God is. That will not help us change in a beneficial way.

The Christian life shouldn’t be stagnant. Sometimes in our questions and experiences, we might falter as we walk through difficult valleys. But don’t stay there! Don’t turn around and abandon the path. May we keep our eyes on Christ and pray that everyday, we are changing to be more like him.

In Christian living Tags Daily life, Christian life, Christian growth, Bible study

Final Week in Proverbs

July 1, 2023 Angela Jeffcott

We made it! A month in Proverbs.

I hope it was a blessing to you and that you see the relevance for today’s world in this 31 chapter book. Here is a brief recap from the last seven days of reading.

  • Several times we are reminded not to be jealous of the wicked {23:17; 24:1, 19} because they will be punished {24:16; 24:20; 26:27; 28:18; 29:6}. This is a theme throughout the book, where we see the ultimate end of the evil.

  • More pleas from a father to a son to listen, heed, obey his voice/commands {23:19, 22, 26; 27:11}. We first saw this in 1:8 and it runs throughout the book. Think of Solomon, the wisest person in history, pleading with his son to listen and not make the same mistakes he did.

  • The difference between the wise and the fool are listed many times {23:9; 24:7; 27:12; 29:9}. The fool continues in his folly until judgment while the wise strive to live upright and gain reward.

  • The last two chapters are a slight break. Chapter 30 has a pattern of, “these three things, yet four…” which is a way of drawing attention and repeating for emphasis. Chapter 31 is most famous for describing a virtuous woman and all the ways she looks after her household.

June is over and with it, our first reading of Proverbs for the summer! In June, I read the New King James Version and for July, I’ll be reading the Christian Standard Bible. I hope going through a chapter a day for a month was helpful for you to get a good overview and see some of the themes and repeated words in Proverbs.

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In Bible study Tags Proverbs, Bible study, wisdom, Bible reading
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Week One in Proverbs

June 7, 2023 Angela Jeffcott

I’ve been reading a chapter of Proverbs a day for a week now and I have thoughts.

Let me begin by saying that no overview is ever going to be exhaustive. On several days, I read the previous chapters again because in reading chapter two, I was reminded of something from chapter one and chapter five started similarly to chapter four. I will be learning and noticing things from this book every time I read it. But here are a few observations from the first seven chapters.

  • Chapter one opens with why we read Proverbs in the first place: to know, to perceive, to receive, to give, to hear, to attain, to understand. All these words are connected to words used for wisdom: wisdom & instruction, understanding, instruction of wisdom, prudence, increase learning, wise counsel, proverb, words of the wise.

  • We also see the reverse of being wise — listening to the enticements of sinners {v10} and the consequences of that action {vv11-19}.

  • Chapter two begins with the same call to wisdom with an “If…then…” statement that runs from verse 1-5.

  • In 2:21-22 we see good and evil contrasted. We will see more of these contrasts in coming chapters!

  • We are very familiar with 3:5-6. It is often memorized and quoted. But I loved connecting it with vv7-8. Part of trusting God and not leaning on our understanding {v5} is humility, meaning we shouldn’t consider ourselves wise {v7}. By acknowledging him and follow his path {v6} we gain strength and health {v8}.

  • Again we see the contrast in good and evil {3:33-35}.

  • Chapter four ends with a lengthy reminder that choosing wisdom over foolishness is a definite action. We can’t be passive in seeking wisdom, because wisdom will cover every aspect of life. Read 4:23-27 and note the actions mentioned for how we should seek wisdom and abandon evil.

  • I had to chuckle at the repeated tone of, “Listen, my son, hear me, children” in so many of these chapters. what parent isn’t constantly reminding their children to pay attention! Listen! This is important! It’s very relatable. But also shows how much we need to actively seek after wisdom! We won’t stumble onto the right path any easier than children making good choices without prompting, reminders, and encouragements.

  • I found 5:21 to be an encouragement in our present day when wickedness and sinful people seem to be winning. Have courage, Christian. God sees, God knows the ways of all people.

  • We see two physical examples here that we can observe. First, the ant, diligently carrying food and storing it {vv6-8}. Second, the picture of fire and what happens when you carry it {vv27-29}. Just as it is impossible to not be burned, so is it impossible to sin — particularly in adultery — without physical consequences.

  • Chapter seven is a sad picture of how easily and quickly sin can overtake us. Just like a harlot, sin looks appealing, maybe even like something we could get away with. But the end result is always a tragedy. It always leads to death.

This is just scratching the surface of what I learned and observed in my readings this week. There are certainly more points I could write out but these stood out to me.

If you haven’t been reading along, please consider joining! We are only one week in and it’s not too late to grab a Bible, open a Bible app, and start reading {or listening} to one chapter of Proverbs a day.

What are some of your takeaways from this week? I’d love to read in the comments!

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In Bible study Tags Proverbs, habits, Bible reading, Bible study
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Bible Resources for Home

March 21, 2023 Angela Jeffcott

Of all the things we teach our children, the Bible and a biblical worldview are the most important. It’s tempting to think preparing kids for future jobs and adult life should command our highest attention, but if our kids aren’t saturated in biblical truth, the “education” we have given them for life will be pointless.

To thrive in life is more than succeeding at a job. It is following God, living for Him rather than the world, and standing firm in what you believe. There are so many things pulling our kids {and ourselves} away from biblical truth. If we are not reading the Bible and teaching our children the difference between secular thought and what the Bible teaches, we will get swept away.

Fortunately, we live in a time and place where resources to help us teach biblical truth are ready and waiting! I’m continually astounded by the level of quality and amount of good resources available. Here is a rundown of some of my favorites. I’ve tried to mention the age the series is appropriate for to help you out. :)

picture books

Tales that tell the truth series

This series is a perfect beginning place for reading aloud to toddlers. Bright pictures, simple language, and yet filled with profound truths, these books {currently 14 in the series} take Bible events and beautifully share the stories while weaving in how the story matters in the big picture of the Gospel. These are also great for elementary readers. My favorite is “The Garden, the Curtain, and the Cross” and it makes the perfect Easter gift.

baby believer series

These board books are a great size for baby hands to grip and fun to read aloud. From opposites to emotions to shapes, each book has a theme that is brought out with biblical people, animals, and words. Even though my kids are older, they still love these.

God made me series

While newer to me, I’ve been very impressed with the quality of these books. The books in this series help teach children the value of all life, an age appropriate introduction to how babies are made, gender, being made in God’s image, protecting our bodies, and more. The colorful pictures keep attention and the text is age appropriate and covers biblical truth. Great to read aloud for younger kids or for elementary kids to read with parents.

story bibles

The biggest story & the biggest story bible storybook

Tracing the theme of God’s redemption and grace from Genesis to Revelation, these books show how the Bible is one large story and how it all fits together. The Biggest Story is divided into ten chapters and, while it doesn’t go in-depth with any one story, it mentions many of the familiar Bible events and shows how they point to the cross. The Biggest Story Bible Storybook offers more of a retelling of specific biblical events, still with the theme of the Bible as one overarching story. Lots of colorful illustrations in both.

the big picture story bible

This was the first story Bible I read to my son before bed when he was just a toddler. It is easy for kids to understand, just enough pictures to keep them interested, and each chapter is short enough to hold their attention. It’s a physically BIG book but a great resource.

The jesus storybook bible

We received this when my oldest daughter was a baby and we’ve read it with each of our kids in their baby/toddler stages. The format points to Jesus as the hero and focal point of the entire Bible, every story points to him. I can’t recommend everything from this author because she’s swung a little left but this book is beautiful. We also have the DVD, which is the pictures from the book animated with David Suchet narrating.

the gospel story bible

This is by the same author as Long Story Short and Old Story New {I’ll mention these more below in the devotional category}. This story Bible is covers the entire Bible and each day’s reading is one full page with an illustration on the facing page. This is another book that points every individual story to the truth of the Gospel. This is a great option for preschool kids bedtime or homeschool families to read before school.

biographies

I have A LOT of recommendations for biographies! Part of that is to give all ages a good resource for learning about Christians from the past. The other reason is because the series below have some different people highlighted. There will be overlap but if you are looking for a good biography about a certain person, I want to give you as many options to find who you are looking for!

Do great things for god series

The ladies in these eight books all served God in various ways with their all. Fun drawings, brief overviews, and timelines make these accessible for all ages and put them into a historical context. A great way to introduce biographies and women of the faith from before.

christian heroes: then and now series

The next step for kids interested in biographies! Great for reading aloud or for upper elementary to read alone. With 48 books in this series, there is a book for whatever time period your child is interested in. We have enjoyed reading these and learning more about specific people from Christian history. Hudson Taylor, Corrie Ten Boom, Eric Liddell, Amy Carmichael, Jonathan Goforth, and so many more. An option I love for these is to include them in geography. Find a person who lived in a country your kids are learning about and read their biography!

christian biographies for young readers

If you have young children not at reading level, this series is a good read aloud picture book option. At under 100 pages each with beautiful illustrations, these books will introduce kids to a variety of Christians from history. The series is published by Reformation Heritage Press so many of the people highlighted come from Reformation history or might not be as well known, but we’ve enjoyed all the books we’ve read from this series.

The lightkeepers series {boys & girls}

My kids have enjoyed these and we’ve learned about a few new people! There’s a set for girls and another for boys. I liked how each book had a theme: Ten Boys/Girls …Who Changed the World, …Who Used Their Talents, …Who Made a Difference, …Who Didn't Give in, and …Who Made History. Each book contains ten different boys or girls and also gives a timeline of their life. Another great, short way to introduce biographies.

trailblazer books

I read some of these by Dave and Neta Jackson when I was young and they were my first step into Christian biographies. Told with a fictional story of a young person alongside real events in the famous Christian’s life allows the children to experience what it would have been like in various places and times.

There are newer additions to this same series by a variety of authors. You can purchase individually or buy a boxed set on a theme {Heroes & Heroines, Missionaries & Medics, Arts & Science, etc.}. These are advertised for 8-12 year olds but could probably be read aloud to younger kids.

heroes for young readers series

This series is similar to the Christian Heroes: Then and Now series but for younger readers. Lots of colorful illustrations and the text is a running poem which makes it easier to read and less text on each page. I would recommend these for early readers, ages 6-9, although some of the words might be bigger and not as familiar.

Devotionals

Between Us {girls & boys}

If you have an upper elementary or Jr High daughter or son, these are great for beginning conversations about biblical worldview and life topics. It is made for a mom/daughter or dad/son to read together with fun, serious, and biblical questions mixed together. Each chapter covers a topic {some different for boys and girls} with Bible verses, conversation starters, questions, and short text about a biblical truth.

lies girls believe & a mom’s guide to lies girls believe

My oldest daughter and I went through this study with a group of girls and moms from our church and we loved it. It was great to read together during the week and then gather with friends and talk about it. There is a chapter about hormones and changing bodies and our group decided to not discuss that as a group but it can be skipped entirely if your daughter isn’t ready for that. We did this with girls ages 8-13. There is also a Lies Young Women Believe for ages 15-17.

Long story short & old story new

This is the devotional we are using as a family everyday this year. The kids take turns reading the Bible passage aloud and Tommy reads the devotional from the book and asks questions. This is great for all ages and getting everyone involved in Bible study.

unfolding grace

This is what we have been reading one morning a week before heading down for school. Each of these 40 readings is straight from the Bible. After a few paragraphs of introduction and an illustration, the text from the Bible is printed. It is usually about a chapter but is sometimes portions from various chapters. The text is the English Standard Version. There is also a version for adults and I believe the only difference is the length of each reading — the adult book is around 600 pages while the kids version is not quite 300 pages.

picture bibles

the action bible

Laid out like a comic book or graphic novel, The Action Bible brings the Bible to life for early readers and older kids alike. The Bible passage is given and the story unfolds through bubble text and colorful illustrations. There have been many stories that my kids were having trouble picturing but The Action Bible gave them a way to visualize what the Bible was describing. Huge hit!

Kingston bible trilogy

Similar to The Action Bible, this is the entire Bible in three graphic novels. We don’t own this one but I have seen it from a friend and it is high quality and good content. Probably best for older readers.

General information

The radical book for kids & the really radical book for kids

We received the first book for Christmas and bought the second this spring {it just released in March!}. These books are packed with information about the Bible, faith, theology, and answers to so many questions kids ask. Neat graphics and bright colors keep kids reading. My kids will pick these up, curl under a blanket, and read away or ask me to read certain sections.

bible infographics for kids vol. 1 & 2& epic guide to jesus

Similar in idea as the Radical Book for Kids but more for younger kids. These give information about villains and heroes, animals, Bible verses and themes, books of the Bible, and a whole lot more. Lots of charts and graphs, great for kids — or adults — who benefit from visualization. These are some of our favorites.

The Daily Grace Co.

I love the resources from this company! So many great options for all ages. Board books, picture books, Bible verse copying books, sermon notes notebooks, theology and Bible verse cards, and a bunch more. I always wait for a sale to order and they drop the price {sometimes down to $5!} on most of their items.

the answers books for kids

Have you had your kids ask a question from the Bible and you didn’t know how to explain it? These books are for you! Each book covers a range of questions actual kids have asked; everything from dinosaurs and fossils to salvation and death. Every answer is supported with Scripture and great to read as a family or for young readers to read alone. If you have older kids {teens}, they have another version with the same type of questions but deeper answers.

The heavens

I love this book! Gorgeous pictures of our incredible universe, Bible verses, and biblical, scientific information about space, stars, and the galaxy. My kids love looking at the pictures. Great resource for studying astronomy or just marveling at our Creator.

Wow! I got a little carried away on this one! But clearly, there are loads of resources available for all ages, all learning types, and I didn’t even list them all! I hope this takes some of the confusion and endless searching through websites for you.

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In homeschool Tags books, kids, Bible study, Bible resources
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Stay Encouraged in Bible Study

February 18, 2023 Angela Jeffcott

I wrote previously on the similarities between Bible study and working a puzzle. But with more puzzling and more studying, I have continued to think about this. :) I realize people have different methods and habits when it comes to puzzling and Bible study. But here are some observations and tips I have found helpful, in both habits.

Beginning

Whenever we start a new puzzle, my kids are all excitement…until I insist on picking out the edge and corner pieces and turning every piece so the correct side shows. They quickly lose interest and disperse to other activities, leaving me to sort through 1000 pieces on my own.

When my son asked why we always begin a puzzle this way, I told him it makes the process of working the puzzle easier. Having the frame set before you tackle the actual picture of the puzzle is helpful because 1) you clearly see how large the puzzle will be, 2) you can begin to see where the inside parts of the puzzle will connect, 3) the picture starts to make sense.

A few times, my kids have started working the middle of the puzzle before the edges are put together and it is rough! The picture on the box gives us a reference of what we’re going for but without the borders, we have no overall vision for size or placement.

In a similar way, when we approach Bible study by choosing our favorite verse and reading it multiple times, we are bound to not understand it completely. We need the context of the surrounding verses, the chapter, the book. By skipping this crucial step that might not seem important, we are making it more difficult and frustrating to get to the meat of the passage and what it’s about.

Let’s consider the book of Ruth. I’ve seen on walls and wedding announcements and everything in between, “For where you go I will go, and where you lodge I will lodge. Your people shall be my people, and your God my God.” {Ruth 1:16b} Now, this is a lovely sentiment and one I agree with BUT Ruth is speaking these words to Naomi, her mother in law and not her future husband {she hadn’t met Boaz at this point in her life and had no idea what was coming. But she was demonstrating a loyalty to her deceased husband’s mother and to the Lord}.

Without looking at the context of the first chapter, we can easily be confused about who is actually talking to whom. And without studying the background and historical placement of this book, we don’t understand the cultural significance or why Ruth’s dedication to go with Naomi is so shocking. Those beginning study tips before diving into the “meat” of a passage will serve us well in the long run.

Middle

Once we have the puzzle edges outlined, my kids continue to be frustrated at my process: grouping colors. I do not like simply picking up two puzzle pieces and seeing if they fit, then moving on to two others, two others…. That is not helpful or efficient to me.

But if I look through all the pieces, study the picture on the box, and group pieces together that are a similar color or show a similar texture or image, I have a much smaller group of pieces to try and match. Suddenly, I have many small sections of the puzzle complete and ready to piece together.

When we apply this practice to Bible study, we see the importance of context. We cannot grab two random verses that we think should go together and make up a new interpretation. What is the whole chapter or book focusing on? What themes or key words do we see woven throughout the passage?

The whole of the Bible is one story. It is not a collection of interesting stories or sayings. It is the story of God’s redemptive plan and every part of the Bible tells us something about that plan and the God who holds this universe. When we try to grab a handful of pieces and make sense of the puzzle, it doesn’t work. When we focus on the verses that make sense to us and declare the rest unnecessary, we will never understand God’s complete message.

Again, we can go back to Ruth. On the surface, the book seems to be a straight forward Cinderella story of a widow who was loyal to her mother in law and it paid off by finding a kind husband. But that’s not the reason Ruth is in the Bible, and if that’s all we get from it, we are missing a lot!

Taking the time to read God’s instructions about leaving harvest in the fields for widows and poor {Lev. 19:9,10; Deut. 24:19}, the idea of a kinsman redeemer {Deut. 25:5-10}, how God sees those in need, etc. we begin to understand more than just a casual read through gives us.

I’ve also noticed that the more I look at the puzzle, the more quickly I recognize pieces I need. I notice the color or shape of the piece and I can grab from the pile of pieces and fit it into the larger puzzle more easily.

In Bible study, this looks like recognizing a theme or reference and plugging it into the greater picture of the Bible. As mentioned above, when Naomi tells Ruth to go and glean in a field because they have nothing, we can pull from our biblical knowledge and remember what God commanded the Israelites in Leviticus. When we reach the end of Ruth, we recognize the names Jesse and David and we can put together the significance of including the story of Ruth and Boaz in the Bible. The more we read the Bible, the more familiar we become with it.

Near End

You probably thought the next part would be to complete the puzzle. But as a puzzler, I’m here to tell you, unless you’re working a 100 piece children’s puzzle, there will come a time in every puzzle I like to call the near end. This can be the frustrating time in puzzling. You can almost see the whole picture! You have a smattering of pieces left! The end is in sight! And yet, it seems so far because all the pieces remaining could go anywhere. They have no distinctive coloring or marking to indicate where they belong.

And so you have to try every remaining piece in every location still blank. After a while, it seems like you’ve tried every piece from every angle and when will this puzzle be finished?! But you are so close and so you keep going, trying every piece again.

In Bible study, it’s not as obvious when we’re at the end…because we will never finish. There’s always going to be something else to learn from our Bible reading and study. But at times, we can feel like we are going in circles in our studying or standing still; we might feel like we don’t understand a passage or a chapter any better than when we first read it.

Just as in working a puzzle, we cannot be discouraged by what we see as an impossible problem. There are many difficult things in the Bible — topics and stories and instructions that we struggle with. That doesn’t mean we gloss over them or ignore them. We can pull out commentaries, dictionaries, and other translations and take the time needed to arrive at an answer.

The third chapter of Ruth has always been a head scratcher for me. Laying at the feet of someone winnowing grain? Checking with another man to redeem her? What is going on? The events of the Bible happened in the midst of cultural traditions and geographic locations that are very foreign to us. So commentaries and dictionaries and maps become a friend for us in unraveling some things that don’t make sense.

However, it is important that we don’t give up! When we read something in the Bible that has us confused or staring into space, we ask questions, we consult reliable commentaries, we press in. Of course, we won’t learn or understand everything in the Bible. Our finite minds can’t comprehend it all. But we do what we can to understand what God has revealed and pray for his guidance as we study.

End

And now we’re there! Every puzzle ends the same. That last piece. It’s never in the same place for every puzzle, but there is always one piece left that once placed, signals the end of this picture and time to start on new one. There is a great feeling of accomplishment and joy when you put that final piece. I usually let one of my kids do it but then, I run my hands over all those beautiful pieces.

Individually, the pieces don’t look like much. They certainly don’t look like they will become something beautiful. But placed and linked in the right place, all those single pieces make one cohesive picture.

As I said before, we never reach the end of Bible study the same way we finish a puzzle and mark it complete. There will always be something to learn and apply from studying God’s Word. However, we will finish a certain study we’re doing in the Bible, whether it’s going through a particular book or topic.

While we might not have all the answers, with careful study we can get a beautiful picture of God and his plan. I already mentioned how the Bible is one story — from Genesis to Revelation, it tells of how man fell, sin entered the world, and God provided salvation instead of punishment. That’s the beautiful, final picture of our puzzle that guides us as we study.

In Ruth, we see not only a picture of God’s care for one family. We see God providing the foundation for the salvation message. Ruth became part of the lineage of Jesus {Matt. 1:5}. The story of Boaz redeeming her is a picture of Jesus redeeming us. It is not an insignificant, inconsequential event in biblical history. It’s a picture of God’s mercy on mankind and his plan for salvation.

I hope this encourages you to not give up on those difficult puzzles {wink} but more important, to not give up on studying your Bible. Any time spent in God’s Word is never wasted.

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In Bible study Tags puzzles, Bible study, Bible reading, habits
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A Summer in Proverbs

September 7, 2022 Angela Jeffcott

In May, I wrapped up a Bible study with some ladies. We had been going through Proverbs for several months and as we ended, I realized I was only starting to understand it. There are so many themes and pictures and repeated ideas.

So I decided for the next three months {June, July, August} I would read a chapter in Proverbs a day, make notes, study deeper into word meanings and comparisons. So over the course of the summer, I read Proverbs three times. Here’s {some} of what I learned:

  1. The line between the wicked and the righteous is distinct. There is no straddling a fence when Proverbs talks about these two. The evil choose one path/decisions that lead to death and the righteous choose the opposite path/decisions that lead to life.

  2. The mouth is important to God! I was amazed at how much this one book had to say about the mouth, tongue, lips, gossip, etc. Sometimes it was phrased in terms of, “Speak like this…” Other times, it was clear warning, “The fool speaks…” I was very convicted by these verses about how we use words and what we say. I anticipate a deeper study into just this aspect of Proverbs in my future!

  3. The five types of fools. As I read several different translations of Proverbs, I noticed several words were used to reference a fool or a foolish person. My dad {who was teaching Proverbs in Sunday School} gave a very helpful breakdown of how five words for a foolish person were different from each other. They ranged from a simple ignorance to a blatant turning from God. I found it very helpful to keep these in mind while I read.

  4. I still have a lot to learn! One would think reading the same thing three months in a row would give me a leg up! And while I do feel like I learned a lot and understand Proverbs better than I did before, I still found myself, reading chapter 28 and thinking, “This seems familiar, what chapter was this already in? What does that word mean?” Inexhaustible is definitely a word I would use to describe reading and learning from the Bible!

Now that the summer of Proverbs has ended, I’m slowly reading through Psalms and studying it as time allows and keeping up with my chronological study. There’s always something to learn!

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In Bible study Tags Bible study, Bible reading, Proverbs, Daily life, Christian life, Christian growth
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Why We Read the Bible

July 7, 2022 Angela Jeffcott

I know hard things aren’t bad; in fact, many times it’s the difficult, frustrating things that grow us the most. But if we had a choice, I think we would gravitate toward the easy side of things. I think this is also true of our Christian growth. We WANT to be more biblically literate, we WANT to have a close relationship with God, we WANT to have wisdom for how to live. But those take time, effort, energy. It doesn’t happen overnight or reading the Bible one morning. It takes commitment for the long haul {your lifetime}. You will read hard truths, you will come across things that take extra time and study to understand. But you will grow.

I believe Bible reading and prayer are two of the hardest disciplines we need to cultivate. In theory, they sound so easy but in practice, it takes commitment and a conscious decision to include both of these in your day.

One of the most helpful things for me to remember when I’m struggling with Bible reading is that God wants me to know him. He gave us the Bible so we could know him personally, so we would know how to live in this world and what he has promised. This isn’t an impossible task set before us by an impersonal God. It is an invitation to grow closer to the One who created all things. Yes, maybe it’s hard some days but it’s worth every effort and every moment of time.

I’ve found it the most difficult to read my Bible when it becomes a task, a checklist instead of something I’m looking forward to. So how do I look forward to it? Below are some ideas.

  • I always have a notebook with me when I read the Bible. I write down questions I have about the passage, verses that stick out to me, and things I hadn’t noticed before. This helps keep my mind engaged and it keeps familiar passages/stories fresh.

  • I look for what the section I’m reading is teaching about God. When I was younger, I was always curious why God included some things and not others. Out of all the history of the Israelites or miracles of Jesus, why were these given to the biblical writers to record as inspired? God doesn’t do anything on accident or mistake. So what we have in the Bible has been given for a purpose: to teach us about God and who he is compared to who we are. {NOTE: this is one of the things I love about The Bible Recap podcast and book. The host/author offers a “God Shot” of what in that day’s reading taught her about God. It’s so helpful!}

  • Some days when I know it’s going to be crazy, I choose to listen to my Bible app for that day’s reading. This engages my mind in a different way than reading and it keeps me in the Word even if I know I won’t have time to sit a read. I also like having it on for my kids to listen to.

  • Ask a friend to keep you accountable or have someone you can text each day with one verse or thought from that day’s reading. I love hearing what my friends are reading and learning from the Bible and I often benefit from their insights.

Imagine a world without the Bible. It truly is an amazing gift from God that we can read, listen to, and share it. But it won’t just happen. We need to make the decision to include it in our day and then to live out the principles we discover. I’d love to hear what you are reading! Comment below and let’s encourage each other on!

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Psalms for Rest

April 25, 2022 Angela Jeffcott

I usually don’t feel anxious. I often don’t realize I’m worried or struggling with something until it suddenly occurs to me that I’m not sleeping, I’m constantly thinking about the same thing, I have a headache, I feel irritable.

Anxiety has a way of sneaking in and getting comfortable in our lives, slowly retraining our minds and attitudes until it seems normal. We don’t remember NOT feeling nervous and worried. We don’t believe we can get out of it.

That’s one of the reasons I love the Psalms. So many of them calm my fears and point me to the truth of God’s character. Instead of dwelling on my worries, I can recite Scripture or sometimes sing it. If you are anxious about the future or overwhelmed in current circumstances, please read and dwell on the following Psalms. I know they will bring comfort and peace.

Psalm 4:8 In peace I will both lie down and sleep; for you alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety.

Psalm 40:1-2 I waited patiently for the Lord; he inclined to me and heard my cry. 2He drew me up from the pit of destruction, out of the miry bog, and set my feet upon a rock, making my steps secure.

Psalm 62:5-8 For God alone, O my soul, wait in silence, for my hope is from him. 6He only is my rock and my salvation, my fortress; I shall not be shaken. 7On God rests my salvation and my glory; my mighty rock, my refuge is God. 8Trust in him at all times, O people; pour out your heart before him; God is a refuge for us.

Psalm 119: 147-149 I rise before dawn and cry for help; I hope in your words. 148My eyes are awake before the watches of the night, that I may meditate on your promise. 149Hear my voice according to your steadfast love; O Lord, according to your justice give me life.

Psalm 121 I lift up my eyes to the hills. From where does my help come? 2My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth. 3He will not let your foot be moved; he who keeps you will not slumber. 4Behold, he who keeps Israel will neither slumber nor sleep. 5The Lord is your keeper; the Lord is your shade on your right hand. 6The sun shall not strike you by day, nor the moon by night. 7The Lord will keep you from all evil; he will keep your life. 8The Lord will keep your going out and your coming in from this time forth and forevermore.

Psalm 136 is a reminder of all God did in Israel’s past and that “his steadfast love endures forever.”

This is just a small sampling. There are so many other Psalms I could have included but had to limit for space. Open your Bible today and seek him. Rest in all he has done and is doing and will do. Great is our Lord!!

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When Anxiety Threatens

November 3, 2021 Angela Jeffcott

Anxiety is an equal opportunity villain.  

I don’t think I’ve ever met a person who hasn’t experienced fear or anxiety at some point. We might be more prone to it depending on active imaginations (me!) or always jumping to worse case scenarios (me!) or being a pessimist (not me!). There is something in our human, fallen minds that lands on fear when uncertain or frightening things happen. 

I didn’t consider myself a fearful person in my younger years. Maybe I naively always thought that difficult things happened to other people, not me. But over the course of a few years, I had several times when I was gripped with a sudden anxiety that was difficult to shake. One of these times was when my daughter was born.

When I went to the hospital to have my daughter, I was so excited. I was two weeks overdue and those weeks seemed like a lifetime. Every appointment those last few weeks, I had to have a stress test which meant I sat in a comfortable chair for 30 minutes while a machine took my vitals. I was declared stress free every time. 

My labor was long and slow. Even after induction, my water didn’t break on its own and the doctor had to do it. And when she did, a problem was discovered. My baby had already had a bowel movement in the womb and there was a high likelihood she had swallowed fluid and developed an infection. The doctor warned that when she was born, her lungs would need to be suctioned and cleared before they would attempt to get her breathing. 

With that on our minds, we continued to wait for labor to progress. When our baby came hours later, it was a rush of activity. As soon as she was born, she was put on a cart and suctioned again and again. I couldn’t see anything happening, but I also couldn’t hear a baby crying. Time seemed to stretch until finally, we heard a little slap on skin and a baby’s wail.  

She was cleaned up and placed in my arms for the first time but not for long. In less than an hour, the nurses needed to get her to the NICU and run tests for infection and start antibiotics. Watching my daughter being wheeled away was not how I had pictured our first hours as a family. I slept on and off and was finally put in a wheelchair to visit our baby and move to a new room. 

For the rest of the week, every day was a new anxiety. The baby wouldn’t nurse and would only drink half the bottle of milk I pumped. We were told she would need to stay in the NICU for at least five days of antibiotic, but I could only stay in my hospital room for 48 hours. We could visit and hold our daughter except for a few hours each day when the nurse schedule rotated. Every doctor round brought some encouraging news coupled with discouraging news. They needed her to eat more at each feeding and gain more weight before releasing her. A certain number of wet diapers a day. A certain heart rate and oxygen number and blood test. 

I would look at the other babies in our NICU room and feel grateful, knowing many of them had more serious issues that required them to stay longer. But seeing my baby in an incubator, needing a nurse to help me lift her out with all the wires and tubes connected to her, not knowing when she would get to come home. I would sit and rock her and sing Jesus Loves Me until my husband came. Then I would head home to shower, change clothes, eat, and head back to the hospital to catch the doctor on his rounds and hear a test update. I would pump and deliver small bottles of milk for the nurses to try and feed her. 

Those five days were life changing. I realized in a way I hadn’t before the fragility of life and how little control we truly have over life’s circumstances. Until my water broke, we had no idea our week would be spent driving back and forth from the hospital, sleeping when we could, cheering for every milliliter of milk our daughter would drink. Finally bringing her home was exhausting relief that we had made it through. God had provided the strength, stamina, and wisdom we needed. 

Most people I know like to have a feeling of control or knowledge of a situation. When we are afraid of outcomes that scare us, we start focusing on the problem instead of on God. 

Anxiety can be paralyzing, taking over our physical and mental capabilities. But again and again, we find comforting words in the Bible, meant to encourage and give us rest. 

Psalm 23 is a beautiful example. It shows the range of depth our lives can have, from the joy and comfort of peaceful moments to the fear and dark times of shadows. While familiar to many, this Psalm isn’t one to be hastily quoted; it deserves consideration and consistent remembering, especially when we are feeling the weight of anxiety pressing in.

The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.

He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters.

He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name’s sake.

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever.

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Times of Drought

July 29, 2021 Angela Jeffcott
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I’ve been thinking about water a lot.

Where we live in Utah, we are in the midst of a summer drought. Advertisements are all around that we need to conserve water, we have limited days and times that we can water the grass and the fire risk is high.

At times, it’s easy to forget I live in a high desert. We aren’t surrounded by cactus and sand, temperatures in the 100s are rare {although this year we have hit the 90s a record number of times already}, and we have snow in the winter. It doesn’t feel like a desert except in these years of drought when the news is constantly how the reservoirs — filled with melted snow runoff — are getting lower and yards are getting brown.

But one of the amazing things about drought is the weeds are thriving. Even though the grass is getting brown in some spots, viney weeds are creeping up nice and green. It doesn’t seem fair.

I find nature to be such a good metaphor for much of the Christian life. Even some of the language we use {going through a spiritual desert or dryspell} makes us think of nature. So it shouldn’t really be a surprise that my mind jumped to spiritual application while trying to keep my plants alive.

The other day, I missed an evening watering of my flowers. Because our sprinklers aren’t turning on as often, I’ve had to fill a watering can and go to each pot and plant. I try to go around sunset so the plants can soak up all the water without the sun evaporating any. After missing that one watering, when I went out the next evening, the ground around my seed spouts was so dry and cracked, the water I poured ran right off. The hard ground didn’t let any of the water soak in and nourish the struggling plant. I had to fill my can a second time and slowly pour the water at the base of each plant before the ground finally accepted it and turned to mud.

I thought how incredible it was that forgetting to water just one day made all the difference in the ground. With constant sun and heat and no water or shade, the ground almost became unreceptive to the water the plants around it needed. And watering seemed fruitless. Maybe I should just give up this year. Let the flowers dry and wither and spend my evenings on more profitable than hauling water across the yard.

Now I know all object lessons break down at some point but let’s compare this to a spiritual dryspell we might experience. In my own life, I’ve found that it’s harder to live a consistent Christian life when I’m not reading my Bible. I get angry and frustrated more easily and things seem more overwhelming. And when I stop and think about what brought this change, it’s usually because I’ve missed my Bible reading or I’ve been consuming so many other things that fill my mind instead of God’s truth.

My heart becomes like the hard ground, unable to soak in the good things God has put in my life or dwell on his Word.

Spiritual droughts happen for many reasons: life transitions, trials, sometimes laziness or mixed priorities. But droughts don’t have to last forever. Unlike a physical lack of water, we can do something to help our situation. We can faithfully read and apply God’s Word, even when we don’t feel like it and it’s hard.

One of the best books I read during the pandemic was, “Everyday Faithfulness” by Glenna Marshall. In it, Marshall devotes each chapter to explaining how even in suffering, even in waiting, even in doubt, even in….you name it, we can practice faithfulness. But the thing about being faithful is that it doesn’t happen overnight. It is a slow, steady, diligent process. One of her quotes that I love is, “Many of us long to follow Jesus more closely, but we are more focused on our present circumstances than on a long view of faithfulness.” {p 19}

Faithfulness is that diligent watering even when days of heat seem to be withering the flowers. Faithfulness is pulling weeds that multiple in dry grass overnight. Faithfulness is opening our Bibles and reading a chapter when we would rather do something else.

Times of drought — physically and spiritually — are almost inevitable. But by being faithful TODAY in what we know we should be doing, we will be building a foundation of faithfulness for the hard times to come.

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Why Personal Bible Study Matters

July 21, 2021 Angela Jeffcott
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I recently purchased The Daily Grace Co’s Bible study called “Search the Word.” The purpose of this six week study is to show why personal Bible study is important and how to do it.

Even though the information in this study is not new to me, it has been an extremely helpful study and I’ve enjoyed it so much. One of the big takeaways from it is that reading and digging deep into the Bible is not for a select group of special experts. It’s for ALL people. No matter your education level, time, resources, skill…you can read and study God’s Word and learn.

If you go to church every week, maybe you’re wondering why you need more than that. Consider these points:

  • We should never blindly believe anyone. Know what the Bible says so you can know when it’s falsely used/applied, even if it sounds good.

  • A relationship with God is personal. He wants us to know him as he knows us. We can’t fully do that if we don’t personally spend time learning about him.

  • The Bible wasn’t meant for one person. It was written for ALL to read and know and learn. Think about the Epistles written to entire churches. EVERYONE in that church was to read/listen to that letter and then know how to live as Christians.

  • We have more Bible resources/helps that are more available than ever better in history. Don’t read Greek or Hebrew? We have the Bible translated in our language. Find parts of it confusing? We have commentaries {many online for free!!}. We have it on audio to listen while driving to work or walking the dog. We have dictionaries and atlases and online tips.

  • You cannot grow spiritually and truly apply God’s Word to your life by only being exposed to it one hour a week. The Bible offers wisdom, comfort, encouragement, help for EVERY SITUATION AND CIRCUMSTANCE. But if you’re just waiting for your pastor to get to a certain passage to glean that wisdom, you are missing out on something you could benefit from now.

So if those are the reasons, how do we do it? This is one of the things I love about the study I’ve been going through from The Daily Grace Co. They break up the process into simple steps with lots of examples and helps. They explain how the Bible works together across every book, major themes and words to look for, how to highlight and underline to see each chapter/books main theme, and more. Using I Peter 2:1-12 as a guide, you read and walk through the text multiple times, adding a new step to each reading. They make it not overwhelming and very doable. Then they show how those same steps can be applied to every Bible passage. There are workbook pages, charts, examples, memory verses. I love it!

This is a great place to start if you’ve never studied the Bible on your own, if you’re starting a Bible study with friends, if working through a chapter study seems impossible or overwhelming. As I said, the information in it isn’t new or earth shattering but it’s so practical and well laid out. It takes the guess work and excuses out!

If you are interested in checking out this exact study, click here.

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In Bible study Tags Bible study, Bible reading, Christian life, Christian growth, personal study, The Daily Grace Co
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Making Sense of the Puzzle

February 11, 2021 Angela Jeffcott
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We’ve been a puzzling family lately. By that I mean we’ve been working a lot of puzzles!

When my oldest was younger, she worked puzzles constantly. We started with 9 piece puzzles, moved to 24 then 48. She would ask for a new puzzle every time we went to the Dollar Store and work it as soon as we got home. I was always amazed that as a four year old, she could look at the pieces, observe the colors and patterns, and patiently work through it.

I showed her to put the edge together first and work from the outside in. She would try a piece, turn it all four ways, then pick up the next piece. We did puzzles more than we played games.

My son was completely different at that age. He loved the idea of a puzzle — of taking all those pieces and making one picture — but he hated the process of doing it. He didn’t like turning all the pieces face up before beginning, finding all the edge pieces before jumping into the ‘fun’ part of the actual picture, trying a piece and not having it fit. Even wood puzzles with the shapes cut out were never his favorite.

But recently our family interest in puzzles has picked up again. We bought some educational ones for school and have made family nights of working them by the fireplace, taken breaks during our school morning to put a few pieces together, and turned on movies to serve as a nice distraction for the kids while Tommy and I work through the difficult parts.

The thing about puzzles is that it takes time. There is prepping an area, sorting the pieces, getting everything face up and spread out. Then you find the corners and edges and just start trying to fit pieces together. It is daunting at first; the perfectly clear picture on the front of the box looks nothing like that jumble of shapes staring at you now. Sometimes it’s hard to know where to focus or what you’re doing. You may sit at the puzzle an hour and see very little progress. But if you want it completed, you have to keep coming back and working through the impossible sections and trying again.

This is the way Bible study is at times. We love the thought of knowing God’s Word, of having an answer for difficult questions, of growing closer to God. But when we sit down to read, we get discouraged. Maybe we’re confused about what the Bible is teaching or why certain passages matter.

However, just like working a puzzle, if we give up when it gets difficult, we’ll never get any farther. Our understanding of the Bible will only grow if we put in the time and effort to actually study it. This means reading it daily, praying for guidance and understanding, consulting commentaries or reference books when we’re stumped, and looking up words we don’t understand.

Psalm 119 is all about why God’s Word is so important to not only know but to apply to our lives and meditate on. It shouldn’t surprise us that the longest chapter in the Bible is about the richness of the Bible!! Consider these words:

How can a young man cleanse his way? By taking heed according to Your word.

With my whole heart I have sought You; Oh, let me not wander from Your commandments!

Your word I have hidden in my heart, That I might not sin against You. {119:9-11}

My soul melts from heaviness; Strengthen me according to Your word.

Remove from me the way of lying, And grant me Your law graciously.

I have chosen the way of truth; Your judgments I have laid before me.

I cling to Your testimonies; O Lord, do not put me to shame! {119:28-31}

Make me walk in the path of Your commandments, For I delight in it.

Incline my heart to Your testimonies, And not to covetousness.

Turn away my eyes from looking at worthless things, And revive me in Your way. {119:35-37}

And those are just in the first 37 of 176 verses! Reading and studying the Bible is a necessary daily habit for all Christians. No matter how long you’ve been saved or how many times you attend church, you need to daily, personal practice of being in God’s Word for yourself.

Even when you don’t see the whole picture of the puzzle and the pieces of what God is doing don’t seem to fit, don’t get discouraged! Keep reading, keep studying, keep praying. It’s the most important way you can spend your time.

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Mom + Kid Devotions - Psalm 119

March 23, 2020 Angela Jeffcott
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I’m not sure if it’s the extra time at home that everyone seems to have or what but people have been asking me for ideas to study the Bible with their kids. As I searched through the free resources some blogs and websites are offering, I noticed they were either/or: they were for kids or they were for moms.

Of course, you can always do a children’s devotion with your kids and learn from it and you can modify and simplify what you read for your kids. But I wondered if it wouldn’t be helpful to have one passage for mom and kids to read/study, some questions to think about and answer, and of course an activity!!

I started putting this simple study together on Psalm 119. The goal is not to overwhelm but to help you read and think about God’s Word together. Here’s some things to keep in mind:

  • Break it into different days. This devotional isn’t designed to do in one day. Try one of these approaches: 1) read the entire Psalm one day, review and ask questions the next, do the activity while you review the key verse the third day, etc. Or 2) since Psalm 119 is already divided into sections of eight verses each, read one section and answer the questions each day. For smaller children, that breaks it into easier chunks to read and think about.

  • For older kids, have them write out the answers to the questions listed under “For Mom.” You could also encourage them to think about/write down how the verses apply to them, what it teaches about God and his character, questions they have.

  • Have kids who can read take turns reading the verses aloud.

  • When you do the activity, talk about why it’s important to put God’s Word in our hearts opposed to other things. Remind them that the Bible is profitable for ANY circumstance we find ourselves in.

Below you’ll find the link to a 2-page PDF you can print off for free. I started reading Psalm 119 with my kids today and asking these questions. By keeping it simple, my prayer is that it’s easy for you to use and adapt to your family without being overwhelming or “just one more thing.”

Please let me know in the comments or over on my Instagram account if you find this helpful and would like more Bible studies like this to print and use with your kids. Stay healthy and stay home!

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A Word for the Year

January 14, 2020 Angela Jeffcott
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In the last few years, it has gotten popular to choose a word to ‘live out’ for the year. Depending on what your focus is, the word can be anything from kindness to confidence.

I don’t always pick a word but I do find it helpful to give some intentional thought to what I want to focus on for the year. And I usually try to study what the Bible says about that word or brainstorm ways I can put it into practice. I’ll get to my word for 2020 in a minute. But first, let’s talk about my process for choosing a word and my purpose in doing it.

When I start to think in December about a possible word for the next year, I think a lot about what my struggles that year have been. Is there something I need to pull away from, learn more about, focus on? Do I know of hardships, challenges, changes coming in the New Year that I need to prepare for? {I realize the next year is largely an unknown time but sometimes we know a surgery is coming, a move might happen, struggles from the previous year that carry over…} I start to pray and think about where God would have me focus my time and energy.

I already mentioned the benefit of focusing my study and learning about a single word. When I chose humility, I was blown away by all the things the Bible has to say — both positively about being humble and negatively on being proud. I started a running list of verses and examples of pride vs humility. I also noticed in my own life that a lot of things I struggled with looped back to being proud; either how well I did something, not asking for help, having a superior attitude. The root of it all was pride. It made the humility of Christ stand out even more in my mind.

Last year, my son was learning the Fruit of the Spirit in our church kids program and we talked A LOT about how we live out each of those nine words. So for 2019, I decided it would be good for me to dwell on them, study them, memorize them too so as I talked with my son, I would be practicing myself what I was telling him to do.

For 2020, I chose the word Ask. One thing that kept coming back to me at the end of last year was my struggle to admit when I needed something. And not just physical help from those around me but asking things of God — for wisdom, peace, everyday needs. My desire to control situations and be seen as a strong, self-sufficient person meant I wasn’t doing a basic thing — praying — and I was getting discouraged by all the things I couldn’t do. {Remember when I mentioned earlier a lot of issues boil down to pride? Clear example here!} The more I thought about it, the more I realized I needed to dwell on the importance of asking. And once I started looking for verses that talk about what we should ask for, why it’s important to ask, etc, I was completely convinced this needed to be my word!!

Do you choose a word or a verse to think about throughout the year?

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In home & family Tags New Year, encouragement, Bible study, prayer, resolutions
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The Danger of What If

April 24, 2019 Angela Jeffcott
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In this age of social media, we hear a lot of warnings about comparisons. Don't covet the image someone is posing on Instagram, don't measure your life compared to someone else. While these are good advice and worth following, there is another lesser-known game we fall into that can be just as deadly. It's the question of what if.

In our lifetime we are faced with a multitude of decisions from where to go to college to whom to marry or if you want to marry, what job to apply for, where to move, how to raise our kids if we have kids, and so on. Most of these decisions are {hopefully} made with careful thought and intention, knowing the outcome will affect any future decisions we come across.

But sometimes when our circumstances seem hard and the trials unending and we view all the other people in the world making other decisions and doing other things, we start to question if we really knew what we wanted back then.

Did I marry the right person? Where would I be if I'd taken that job? What if I hadn’t made that mistake? What if I hadn’t done that? What if I had moved there, gone to that church, learned that skill….

It's a never ending game that's pointless in every way. Not only can we never go back and make those decisions over, we are in a very real way stepping out of where we currently are and being dissatisfied with the outcome. We've all made bad choices, we've all had things we want to get another chance at. But that doesn't mean God has stopped working with where we are.

I think of David from the Old Testament. He had many choices to make, some good, some not so good. When he was the only one brave enough to stand up to Goliath {I Samuel 17:26} he showed real trust in God and made the right decision. When he married multiple women {I Samuel 18: 27; 25: 42-43} those decisions would have consequences for the remainder of his life. Then we have his sin with Bathsheba {II Samuel 11}.

Throughout his life, David had much to ‘what if’ over and decisions he probably regretted. However, many of the Psalms were written while he was in the midst of a trial. There were perhaps times when he looked back on his decisions and wondered ‘what if I had done something else.’ But we have his words in Psalm 40: 1 — “I waited patiently for the LORD; he inclined to me and heard my cry.”

You see, after we make a choice, God doesn’t scold us for making a wrong decision. Sometimes there are consequences to what we choose and we have to live with them. But God doesn’t leave us there, hopeless and alone because we should have chosen the other path. His character is the same. He is still with us. We’ll never know the outcome of the what ifs in our life, but that shouldn’t stop us from serving God and seeking him right now where we are.

When we are struggling and maybe regretting something from our past, we can run to God and pour our heart and cares and concerns to him. And he is faithful to hear our cry.

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Happy New Year!!

January 1, 2019 Angela Jeffcott
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2019. It doesn’t seem possible yet here we are, at the start of another year.

2018 was filled with…lots of different things. Good, bad, hard, memorable, victories, laughter, tears. We had a baby, we moved, my grandma died, my parents moved, we started another homeschool year, I lost sleep. It’s hard to imagine how 12 months - 365 days - could hold so much. But here we are, on the threshold of doing it all again. Facing the unknown and trusting God to see us through.

Last year my focus was on quieting my heart. Not getting so caught up in what happened that I forgot to take time for God’s Word and peace. For this year, I didn’t choose a word to dwell on but rather a group of words. Over the last several months, the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23) has come up in many conversations with my kids and members of our church. Those nine words seem so simple yet put into daily practice become so difficult. So for 2019 I’m thinking, repeating, dwelling, and focusing on those: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self control. Look for future posts about what I’m learning and how I’m applying them to my life.

For Christmas I received from my sister a journaling Psalter. It is a book with just the Psalms but every other page is blank for notes, thoughts, doodles. Then one of my sisters in law gave me a book about the Psalms and the themes of each one. So expect to see some blog posts about what I’m learning as I read through Psalms this year.

For my daily Bible reading, I’m using my She Reads Truth Bible again and the reading plan that’s in the back of it. This version {Christian Standard} I’ve probably read/heard the least so I decided to read it again. The plan I’m using is two Old Testament and two New Testament chapters each day. It goes through Psalms and the New Testament twice in the year.

I have some goals and projects I’m working on but I’ll save those for another post. Happy January 1! Let’s use this year to serve others, glorify God, and draw closer to our Lord.

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